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Опубликовано 07 марта 2018, 18:25

Звезда сериала «Дневники вампира» потеряла ребенка

29-летняя Клэр Холт написала большой и невероятно эмоциональный пост о том, как всего неделю назад она пережила выкидыш.

Американская актриса Клэр Холт, известная по роли Ребекки Майклсон в сериалах «Дневники вампира» и «Древние», призналась, что была беременна, но потеряла малыша. Девушка написала большой пост в Instagram, в котором заявила, что едва смогла справиться с болью и горечью, и только любовь и поддержка близких помогли ей прийти в себя.

«Я обращаюсь ко всем, кто пережил выкидыш: я понимаю вас. Я разделяю с вами боль, вы не одни. Пожалуйста, будьте добрее к себе. Я надеюсь, что вы тоже сможете рассказать свою историю», — отметила Клэр.

I took this photo 10 days ago, as I waited for surgery after my sweet little baby lost its heartbeat. I sent it to my fiancé in the waiting room to show him that I was ok. I wasn’t. I’ve never felt more broken in my life. I debated sharing this so soon and I’m still frightened about making such a private struggle public, but I’m doing it anyway because it's important. After my D & C, I spent hours on the internet searching for women who had been through it. I was desperate to find someone, anyone, who could relate to what I was feeling. Someone to tell me that the depression and hopelessness were normal. That it wasn’t my fault. That I wasn’t broken forever. I found a community of women who shared my exact experience. Who were open and vulnerable about miscarriage, something that isn’t often or openly discussed. It breaks my heart to think that losing a baby feels like something we have to keep to ourselves. Why is it any different than the death of a loved one? How is it any less meaningful? Here is what I have learned as I begin to crawl out of the dark hole: support is everything. I could not have survived this without the unconditional love of my partner. Despite his pain, he was my rock and my safety net. I will never know how to thank him. I also found that opening up to people is crucial. As soon as I told my story, almost everyone I spoke to told me theirs - their own, their wife’s, their sister’s. So many people go through it and understand the breadth of pain, yet so few people talk about it. Finally, I want to share a blog post that resonated with every part of me. You can find the link in my bio, @leandramcohen of @manrepeller articulates the emotional rollercoaster with an eloquence that I could never possess. To anyone out there who has been through a miscarriage, I understand you. I share every bit of your pain and you are not alone. Please be kind to yourself and I hope that you will be comfortable sharing your story too.

Публикация от Claire Holt (@claireholt)

Прошлый год выдался у блондинки бурным в личной жизни: в мае ее супруг Мэтт Каплан подал на развод после 11 месяцев брака, а уже в декабре мисс Холт объявила о помолвке с риэлтором Эндрю Джоблоном (поклонники до сих пор подозревают, что Клэр изменила мужу с новым возлюбленным). Будем надеяться, выкидыш не подкосит девушку и она порадует поклонников новыми интересными ролями.

Фото: Global Look Press, Instagram